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Kids’ Health: HPV vaccine
May 13th, 2012 by bocaparent

Vaccine.

If you’re scheduling pre-camp or summer checkups for your tweens, chances are your pediatrician is going to talk to you about the HPV vaccine.

It helps prevent certain types of cancer that are caused by the human papillomavirus, including cervical, vulvar, vaginal, penile, anal, and some oral cancers, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

Because HPV is spread through sexual contact, the ideal time to get the vaccine is before kids become sexually active.

Because vaccines of any nature have been the topic of much anxiety for parents, BocaParent talked to a local pediatric infectious disease specialist, Dr. Jose R. Mateo, about why we should consider this one – for girls and boys.

For him, it comes down to the severity of the disease the vaccine aims to prevent – in this case, cervical cancer, of which HPV is the main cause.

“It should be used in every adolescent because there is a lot to prevent here,” Mateo said.

Cervical cancer causes about 4,000 deaths in women each year in the United States, according to the CDC. There are about 15,000 HPV-associated cancers in the United States that may be prevented by vaccines each year in women.

Beyond that, the vaccine can also prevent some oral cancers in men – and genital warts. Mateo says billions are spent every year to treat genital warts, which can also be transmitted to babies during birth and cause serious respiratory problems.

The vaccine is underused, with about 32 percent of eligible girls getting it in 2010. Mateo attributes that to its newness and the fact that it isn’t required by schools or other organizations.

There are two HPV vaccines: Gardasil, approved in 2007, and Cervarix, approved in 2009. Mateo said there are no significant side effects with either. Gardasil protects against four strains of the virus and is the only one approved for use in boys.

Mateo said the HPV vaccine, which is not a live virus, is safe to get alongside the other immunizations required for entry into seventh-grade: Tetanus, Diphtheria, Pertussis and Meningococcal Conjugate.

Some insurers do cover Gardasil and Cervarix.

GETTING THE HPV

For girls and boys age 11-12, the CDC recommends three shots over six months.

Mateo recommends bringing the kids in well-hydrated and having them sit in the doctor’s office a few minutes after receiving any shots, to avoid any faintness.

LEARN MORE

The CDC website has more details.

Dr. Jose R. Mateo is in private practice in Boca Raton and Coral Springs and is affiliated with  West Boca Medical Center. You can reach him at 561-997-7686.

Find more on medical issues from local experts on our Kids’ Health page.

- CHARLENE PACENTI

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Kindergarten roundup
Apr 29th, 2012 by bocaparent

If you’re sending a little one off to public school kindergarten this fall, you might want to attend the “kindergarten roundup” event at the school, as a first-round orientation. Here is the schedule of the remaining sessions at South County schools:

  • Addison Mizner: 8:15 a.m. April 30.   362-3101
  • Banyan Creek: 8:30 a.m. May 4.  894-7100Calusa: 8:30 a.m. May 4.   989-7501
  • Calusa: 8:30 a.m. May 4.    989-7501
  • Citrus Cove: 6 p.m. May 24.    292-7000
  • Crosspointe: 9 a.m. and 6:30 p.m. May 15.   292-4100
  • Del Prado: 8:30 a.m. May 3.   544-1801
  • Forest Park: 8:30 a.m. May 2.     292-6900
  • Galaxy: 8:45  a.m. May 11.    739-5600
  • Hagen Road: 9 a.m. May 11.    292-6700
  • Hammock Pointe: 8:30 a.m. May 18.   477-2200
  • Morikami: 8:30 a.m. May 8.    894-7300
  • Orchard View: 9 a.m. May 4.    894-7400
  • Pine Grove: 8:30 a.m. May 15.     266-1100
  • Plumosa: 5 p.m. May 1.     330-3900
  • Poinciana: 6 p.m. May 15.     739-5700
  • Rolling Green: 8:30 a.m. and 6 p.m., May 3.    202-9500
  • S.D. Spady: 8:30 a.m. May 7.     454-7800
  • Sandpiper Shores: 8:30 a.m. May 2.     883-4001
  • Sunrise Park: 8:30 a.m. May 7.     477-4300
  • Sunset Palms: 8:30 a.m. May 9.     752-1100
  • Verde: 8:30 a.m. and 5:30 p.m. May 4.   218-6800
  • Village Academy: 8:30 a.m. May 2.   243-6133
  • Waters Edge: 8:30 a.m. May 15.   852-2400
  • Whispering Pines: 8:30 a.m. and 5:30 p.m. May 2.     672-2700
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Things to Do: ‘Elvis’ is coming
Apr 29th, 2012 by bocaparent

Chris MacDonald Elvis tribute.

The King lives in Downtown Boca this weekend, with South Florida’s favorite Elvis tribute artist headlining this month’s Friday Night Live in a free concert.

Chris MacDonald, who takes his Elvis show all over the country, will play at Sanborn Square on May 4, with a band and dancers. His show highlights several stages from “the King’s” career.

The event starts at 6:30 p.m. with a food truck roundup: 4Alarm Pizza, Divan Bakery, Gene’s Joint, Guiseppe’s Italian Sausage, Kona Ice, Latin Burger, Meatballs Etc., Tango Grill and The Philly Grill.

At 7 p.m., a group Boca Bop line dance will take the stage, followed by MacDonald at 7:30.

MacDonald has performed all over the country, including Graceland and Las Vegas, in addition to frequent local shows.  Broward County’s Florida Country Music Association once named him Male Vocalist of the Year. (He is playing at the Broward Center for the Performing Arts in August; those tickets start at $42.50).

He has appeared with Elvis’ own original backup group, the Jordanaires. And in February, he presided over a marriage vow renewal ceremony for 50 couples at the Seminole Hard Rock Hotel & Casino.

The Boca show is part of the city’s new entertainment series on the first Friday of every month. Downtown shops, restaurants and clubs extend their hours and offer samplings, discounts and specials from Mizner Park to Royal Palm Place, along Palmetto Park Road and Plaza Real South.

Here is the schedule for the rest of the year:

Most events are free. Festivities begin at 6:30 p.m., with live entertainment starting at 7:30.

  • June 1: Walkway to Waterway “Summertime Fest” along Palmetto Park Road
  • July 6: Americana/Picnic in the Park at Sanborn Square
  • Aug. 3: Country Town at Sanborn Square.
  • Sept. 7: Brazilian Beat along Palmetto Park Road
  • Oct. 5: Community & Culture
  • Nov. 2: Spirit of Thanks & Giving at Sanborn Square
  • Dec. 7: Holiday Sounds at Sanborn Square

LEARN MORE

Visit Chris MacDonald’s website or find him on Facebook

Keep up with Downtown Boca events at www.downtownboca.org and on Facebook

HEAD’S UP

The new iPic cinema opens May 4 at Mizner Park. Find a ticket deal at downtownboca.org.

- CHARLENE PACENTI

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More parents are home-schooling
Apr 23rd, 2012 by bocaparent
Christy Raines.

Christy Raines, 15, has been educated at home since age 5.

In the midst of FCAT season in public school classrooms, angst against “the system” goes into high gear.  Parents are looking for solutions – and more in Palm Beach County are opting out of schools altogether.

The number of local students who were home-schooled jumped 8 percent – to more than 4,800 students in Palm Beach County – for the 2010-11 school year, according to the Florida Department of Education.

“With home schooling, you don’t have to teach to any test,” said Sharon Raines of Boca Raton, who has home-schooled her 15-year-old daughter, Christy, for 10 years. “You can teach the things you believe are important.”

People who choose to home-school have many reasons for doing it, beyond avoiding  Florida’s “teach-to-the-test” public school culture and finding pricey private schools out of reach.

Some are motivated by religion. Others worry about safety in schools.

Raines, who has led the Boca Home Schoolers support group for the past eight years, said she wanted the freedom to instill specific character qualities in her daughter and have the family’s Christian convictions be the foundation of her learning.

It’s also a lifestyle choice. Home-schoolers are not bound by specific attendance requirements. School can be conducted during the day, at night or on the weekends. Your vacations need not be ruled by the county school calendar.

But it is a big commitment, and a lot of work for parents

Raines,  a stay-at-home mom, figures she spends more than 30 hours a week on her daughter’s education, including preparing lessons, grading papers, organizing field trips, projects, sports and other activities. She believes it is worth it.

“It’s a wonderful opportunity that we have as parents to teach our children,” Raines said. “It’s the single best thing our family has ever done. We love it.”

Finding curriculum

When Christy was 5, Raines started the “Five in A Row” curriculum, which offers rich lessons through an assortment of children’s books. She recommends this approach for younger children because it is fun, easy to implement, and affordable, since most of the books can be found at the library.

Over the past 10 years, the Raineses have experimented with several programs. Sharon Raines now selects course materials designed for her daughter’s kinesthetic, hands-on, learning style. Home educating allows her the flexibility to try different techniques to get her daughter to retain certain concepts.

“You can tailor the curriculum to your child’s learning style,” Sharon said. “Schools can’t do that.”

With a degree in finance, Raines said she is comfortable teaching her daughter math and English. For some of the other subjects, like science, Christy receives supplemental instruction weekly at Home Education Enrichment Day.

HEED is a Boca Raton-based home school co-op that hires teachers who are experts in their fields to tutor students in a variety of subjects, including chemistry, biology, algebra, literature,  public speaking and critical thinking. The classes are offered weekly and cost up to $450 a class for the school year. Raines said it is worth the cost.

HEED serves about  150 families.

“We wouldn’t have the resources to do a science lab, but when you come together with a large group, you can get a teacher who can offer a lab,” Raines said.

Three virtual education programs are also available, for free, to Florida students:

Home-schooled children do not receive an official diploma from the Department of Education but they can still attend college. Some parents create transcripts and diplomas to submit directly to college admissions departments, while others choose to have their child get a GED. According to the Home School Legal Defense Association, colleges are mainly concerned with SAT or ACT scores and having an accurate transcript that outlines all of the courses the student has completed.

Socialization

Many people think home-schooled children don’t get to interact with other kids. But home-schoolers in Boca Raton have plenty of opportunities to participate in sports and other activities – even at public schools.

Christy spends her Friday afternoons with 72 other children preparing for an upcoming production of Tom Sawyer that is being produced by the home-school drama company Stars in the Universe. The production will include elementary, middle and high school-age students.

In addition to violin and vocal lessons, Christy also plays volleyball for the Christian Home School Athletic Association of Florida. The association, commonly referred to as SAINTS, offers physical education for kids age 5-17. Students are exposed to a variety of sports, including baseball, archery, volleyball, golf and track and field.

Support

Raines recommends finding a local support group – for guidance and encouragement for you, and social activities for the kids.  Besides her group, the Palm Beach County Homeschooling Cooperative supports home educators with kids age 3 to 12.

How to get started

Find all the requirements at the state Department of Education website.

Resources


- MERCEDES COPPIN

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‘Bully’: A must-see for parents
Apr 16th, 2012 by bocaparent

Bully the movie.Now playing in Boca Raton and Delray Beach: Bully, the controversial documentary.

Every parent of should see this – and more importantly, every middle- and high-schooler.

It will make you sad. It will make you angry. And maybe that’s the first step toward ending this problem.

The film follows five kids from towns around the country who are systematically tortured by their schoolmates: A gay girl bullied into quitting the basketball team. A boy hit and stabbed with pencils nearly every day on the school bus. A girl who gets so fed up, she brings a gun onto the school bus. Two other boys who end up committing suicide.

In some cases, the parents had no idea of the severity of the abuse their kids were suffering. In other cases, parents went to school administration, or even the police, and got no relief.

The most infuriating part of the film – beyond the cold-hearted, animal behavior of the bullies – is the school administrator in Sioux City, Iowa, who is so inept that people in the theater wanted to punch her in the face. The fact that she didn’t even pretend to take the parents’ complaints seriously – even on camera – just underscores how clueless she is.

(A blog has sprung up to monitor her continued employment – see kimlockwood.wordpress.com.)

Now that the film has a PG-13 rating, schools should be able to show it. Because the kids who really need to see it are the ones whose parents aren’t likely to take them.

This is a profound opportunity to talk to your kids about how to treat other people – and to extend compassion and friendship to their classmates who may be struggling. Tell them to stand up for the new kids, the different kids, the ones who are picked on and who don’t seem to have any friends. One kind word, one show of support can make a big difference.

Jackie Libby, mom of Alex, the boy abused on the bus, told U.S. News that every day since the film premiered, people have told Alex he is inspiring. He even received a few prom date requests. Those kind words go a long way, Libby said.

“It works the same way both ways. You can build them up or drag them down, but words are very powerful,” she said. (Read the whole report and watch a Bully trailer here.)

And tell your kids to report the bullying they see. Our local middle schools all have bullying hotlines and drop boxes on campus where kids can make anonymous reports. Make copies of the ones your kids submit. Don’t let administrators use “we didn’t know” or “no one reported it” as an excuse to tolerate this behavior. As parents, we need to follow up and make sure action is taken.

The makers of Bully are trying to change the culture. To get kids to stand up for tolerance. To make it cool to be kind. Isn’t that what we all want for our kids?

READ MORE

Parents of a student at Don Estridge High-Tech Middle School sue over bullying

At The Bully Project website, kids can tell their stories sand get ideas for how to make a difference at their school

At Boca Raton’s Promise, find resources for dealing with mental health issues in young people.

In 3-Minute Guru:

What to do when your child is bullied

Protect kids from bullying – listen to them

Bully is showing at Cinemark in Boca Raton and Regal in Delray Beach. Check showtimes.

Read a review of the film at MomsMiami.

- CHARLENE PACENTI

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